The Speed Bump is a classic and well-loved sex position because it’s a shape that is beautifully low-maintenance and low-effort with high reward. It offers deep, intense sensations that stimulate the rear wall of the vagina or anus for toe-curling sensations that are similar to doggy-style but with additional comfort and support.
This sex position of the week is a fun little variation of doggy style, but it is a position that requires a tad more logistics and mobility. In this position, both partners will start standing while the person being penetrated bends over, touching the floor and using it for support, resembling the downward dog yoga position. This means this partner will need a fair amount of flexibility (particularly in the back of their hamstrings) or, alternatively, an elevated support item under their hands.
Missionary is an iconic sex position that will never go out of style! But sometimes, we all crave a twist on a classic. This week’s sexy shape covers the timeless missionary position we all know and love while adding more clitoral and vulva sensations simply by swapping whose legs are on the outside. The easiest way to access this position is through a missionary-like shape, so let’s get started!
This week’s featured sex position requires a higher level of trust than usual due to the bondage element (and a little flexibility plus mobility), but we promise this shape is worth it!
Before starting, make sure to communicate openly about each person’s desires and boundaries. This includes having your safe word prepared and ensuring your setup is safe and comfortable for both partners.
As we revisit some of the classics, reverse cowgirl is one we definitely can’t skip past! This shape is the cousin of everyone’s favourite cowgirl, and this variation offers all the benefits of cowgirl, plus a little bit more. With both cowgirl and reverse, the partner on top has as much control over the rhythm and speed as they like, letting them feel in control and empowered. Meanwhile, the bottom partner is given a chance to lay back and enjoy the sensations, and the view of course! With reverse cowgirl, the view from behind is a great deviation from the norm and is one of the main highlights of the position, especially to any visual people out there!
Ah, 69. An iconic shape that allows both partners to receive and give oral stimulation at the same time. What more could you want? 😉
If you’re looking to spice up missionary, this position has you covered! Introducing the butterfly sex position, which is a variation on missionary that allows for more intense pleasure, deeper penetration, and freeing up some space to indulge in clitoral stimulation. Best of all, this shape isn’t too difficult or complex to manage, making this sex position comfortable and accessible to many.
It may get hated on for being boring or vanilla, but missionary is a sex position that will never go out of style! This shape offers so much more than the haters think, and hey, since when is vanilla a bad thing?
