Double the Fun: Best Double-Ended Strap-On Dildos

Strap-on dildos are plenty thrilling on their own, but nothing beats the versatility of double-ended dildos! These dynamic sex toys for couples are also great sex toys for her on her own, providing new dimensions of pleasure to both solo players and couples. They may look intimidating at first, but we promise that these versatile adult toys will fill you with pleasure, and more!

Whether you’re seeking the thrill of double penetration by yourself, are curious about pegging between hetero partners, or want to explore vagina-to-vagina penetration for WLW/lesbian couples, these double-ended dildos and straps-ons are a great way to experience twice the fun in the bedroom…

What are double-ended dildos?

Double-ended dildos are exactly what they sound like: dildos that can be inserted from either end, meaning they can be inserted from both ends at once if you so desire. They can penetrate you and/or a partner vaginally, anally, or both at once (depending on the shape of the dildo and your own personal preferences), making them a great choice for solo pleasure, pegging, or couples’ strap-on play.

Traditionally, these toys are considered lesbian sex toys (or sex toys for couples where both people have vaginas), but double-ended dildos can be used by any one person and all couples of all gender pairings — basically, if you like penetrative stimulation, this couples’ sex toy is perfect for you! There is a huge variety of shapes, sizes, textures, and materials to choose from, as well as different levels of anatomical realism, so there’s bound to be a dual-ended dildo to suit you at Sexyland!

How do double-ended dildos work?

Typically, double-sided dildos come in one of three designs that can enhance sex and masturbation in different ways depending on their shape:

• U-shaped double-ended dildos — these curved yet rigid dildos are designed to simultaneously enter the vagina and anus for a solo user, offering double penetration delights! It’s common for one of the heads to be bigger than the other, as well as for the shaft to get thicker towards the larger head, so you can decide which of your entrances gets to accommodate which end.
• Long, straight double-ended dildos — these are designed to be used with one person at either end to please two people at once, either vaginally or anally. They’re usually flexible so you can bend the dildo into your favourite positions and can be the same thickness along the entire length or different thicknesses at both ends to suit either person’s desires!
• Strapless strap-on dildos — usually, these double-ended dildos are L-shaped, with the shorter end going inside the wearer’s vagina and the receiver’s end being the longer of the two. The wearer is the person who controls the dildo, taking on a top role and using their kegel muscles to hold the smaller end of the dildo inside their vagina as they thrust into the other person. These double-ended strap-on dildos are great for pegging and general strap-on play between couples with two vulvas!

If you’re curious about how to choose the right size and shape of a double-ended dildo for you, think about which of these different use cases is best aligned with what you want to get out of buying one of these sex toys. Don’t forget, you can always consult one of Sexyland’s Fun Specialists in our adult stores or via Live Chat if you’re shopping online and need some extra advice!

Tips for Beginners: Getting Started with Double-Ended Dildos

Not sure how to handle the insertion step? Here’s our handy guide on how to use double-ended dildos:

• If your double-sided dildo is different sizes at both ends, pick which end you want to go into which orifice and/or person. Positions where both people are horizontal and have their genitals facing each other will be the easiest to work with, though if your dildo is flexible, you can also bend it to suit your starting position. For you and a partner to enjoy the dildo’s maximum length, either person can grab the exposed part of the shaft between your two bodies and manually move it back and forth by hand, or use your arms as leverage to push and thrust your whole bodies up and down the dildo’s length.
• If your double dong is firm and curved like a horseshoe for dual penetration, hold it at the base of the curve and try inserting it from a few different positions to find the one that works best for you, such as lying on your side, on your back, while kneeling, or on all fours. You can also try raising one leg or getting a partner to help with insertion. From there, the curved section can act like a handle, making it easy for you or your playmate to plunge it in and out of you until you’ve had your fill of fun!
• For double-ended strap-on dildos, decide who will be topping and who will be bottoming. The top then inserts the smaller end of the dildo into their vagina and holds onto it with their kegel muscles, then penetrates the bottom with the longer end. Some double-ended strap-ons have harnesses attached, so some are just a matter of slipping on the harness and adjusting the straps to fit!

What materials should I look for in a double-ended strap-on dildo?

Dildos and strap-ons come in all sorts of materials, from jelly materials with a crystal-like appearance and super-soft thermoplastic rubbers to firm plastic. Non-porous materials are best for all sex toys for him, her, and couples since they won’t harbour any nasties like bacteria or mould and are body-safe for your peace of mind. The most common non-porous material for double-ended dildos and strap-ons is silicone as this can deliver a lifelike firmness that’s still soft and flexible to keep up with your movements and conform comfortably to your body. Silicone is also easy to clean so you can be sure your toy is hygienic and clean whenever you want to whip it out and play!

Like with any penetrative toy, lubricant is a must-have essential when it comes to penetrative toys. If you’re sticking with silicone, a water-based lubricant is best, and as an added bonus, water-based formulas are compatible with all sex toy materials so you’ll be able to enjoy a nice, slick glide no matter what! If you want a longer-lasting glide, a silicone-based lubricant can also work if your toy is made of something firm like wood, glass, ceramic, or metal, though these materials are more common among regular dildos and quite rare when it comes to strap-ons and double-ended dildos.

As with all sex toys, if you’re using double-ended dildos with multiple partners, it’s worth using condoms and being vigilant about swapping them between partners to reduce the risk of transmitting STIs and general infections to each other while also cutting down on cleanup.

The best double-ended dildos available to buy at Sexyland

• The Dr. Skin 12” Realistic Mini Double Dong — for DP beginners who are curious about double penetration but don’t want to be overwhelmed with excessive girth or length, this horseshoe-shaped dildo is a great place to start. It has two differently-sized heads of slim and average sizes so you can take your time getting used to the feeling of having something inside multiple openings at once.
• The Secret Kisses 7.5" Handblown Double-Ended Glass Dildo — this lovely dildo is made from fracture-resistant, hypoallergenic glass for a super-smooth glide with any type of lubricant, all in a luxe combo of black and gold patterns for that extra ~aesthetic~ touch. The curved S-shaped shaft is topped with two tapered yet bulbous heads that are perfect for G-spot and/or prostate orgasms!
• The Temptasia Estella Vibrating Platinum Silicone Strapless Strap-On — this strapless strap-on dildo has a textured grinding pad for the wearer to rub their clitoris against for external pleasure as they thrust, and there’s a vibrating bullet included that slots into said clitoral pad if you really want to crank up the stimulation! The longer shaft for the receiver is topped with a phallic, ridged head that will hit their G-spot or prostate just right every time.

Maintenance & Care: Keeping Your Toy Clean & Long-Lasting

The human body is naturally home to plenty of bacteria that’s harmless (and even beneficial) while inside you, but is not to leave on the surfaces of your toys. That’s because this bacteria can cause infections and other nasty health problems for you or anyone who’s sharing your toys with you, so always clean up with warm water (or a damp washcloth if your toy isn’t waterproof) and adult toy cleaner or antibacterial soap post-play. Take care to keep charging ports, battery compartments, and other openings dry if your dildo has any, especially if the instructions say it’s not fully waterproof.

Keen to see how all couples can spice up their sex lives with double-ended dildos? Visit any Sexyland adult store and ask a friendly Fun Specialist for advice, or browse our online collection of double-ended dildos and other hot sex toys for him, her, and couples!