Helping Hands

Looking to shake things up and take intimacy to the next level? The Helping Hands sex position involves mutual masturbation (an act where you use your hands or toys to pleasure each other)  and is the ultimate way to let your partner take the reins while discovering exactly what makes you both tick. This sensual sex position changes up the dynamic, putting control of your pleasure in someone else’s hands. The result? An intimate, connected experience that’s as playful as it is eye-opening… 😉

Start by sitting comfortably side by side, close enough for easy access and facing forward together. Whether you’re lounging on the bed, perched on a couch, or sitting on a soft rug, the key is relaxation. Set the mood too, whether that’s with candles, soft lighting, or even your favourite naughty video! From there, you can take turns exploring each other’s bodies with your hands — caressing, stroking, teasing — while communicating what feels good and where you like to be touched. This is a golden opportunity to get vocal, offering gentle guidance so your partner can master your pleasure. Moans, whispers, or even a simple ‘right there’ can deepen your connection and ensure that both of you feel satisfied.

The thrill of Helping Hands comes from the balance of control and vulnerability as it’s all about exploration, trust, and pleasure. Having someone else in charge of your pleasure creates a new level of anticipation; you never know exactly where their hands will go next or what kind of sensation they’ll deliver, and by being open, vocal, and attentive, you’ll strengthen your connection while learning exactly how to drive each other wild! It’s a playful, hands-on way to learn what your partner loves most and share exactly what works for you in return.

To make this experience even more exciting, why not add a toy or two? The Shane's World Finger Tingler slips neatly over your finger and rumbles in through its ribbed silicone for delightful stimulation wherever you point your finger, or for those with penises, a vibrating cock ring can extend and enhance the enjoyment!