Perfect Harmony

This week, we’re diving into one of the most iconic and mutually gratifying positions out there; the 69. Perfect for couples looking to simultaneously stimulate each other, this position offers a fantastic blend of intimacy, excitement, and, of course, pleasure! Whether you're new to this position or a seasoned pro, here’s how to make the most of your 69 experience…

Before you dive headfirst into the 69 position, it’s essential to set the mood. Ensure both partners are fully aroused and comfortable. A bed or a spacious couch is ideal for this position, providing plenty of space to manoeuvre. For added comfort, you might want to have a few pillows on hand to support the bottom partner’s neck and back.

The 69 position involves both partners lying head-to-toe, allowing for simultaneous oral pleasure. Here’s a simple way to get started; the bottom partner lies on their back and the person on top gets on all fours above them, facing downward. Both people position their heads near their partner’s genitals. You can choose who goes on top and who goes on the bottom based on comfort and preference. Some couples find that switching roles mid-session can add variety and keep things exciting!

To make your 69 experience even more enjoyable, consider adding a good-quality flavoured lubricant to enhance sensations and ensure everything feels smooth and pleasurable while also adding a tasty twist to the fun! You can also incorporate vibrating sex toys for added stimulation, like a finger vibrator can be a great addition to provide extra clitoral or penile stimulation. One of Sexyland’s favourites is the Shane's World® Finger Banger, which is a one-size-fits-all silicone sleeve that fits anyone's finger and has a ribbed texture, as well as vibrations everyone can enjoy for truly gender-neutral fun!