Reverse Cowgirl

As we revisit some of the classics, reverse cowgirl is one we definitely can’t skip past! This shape is the cousin of everyone’s favourite cowgirl, and this variation offers all the benefits of cowgirl, plus a little bit more. With both cowgirl and reverse, the partner on top has as much control over the rhythm and speed as they like, letting them feel in control and empowered. Meanwhile, the bottom partner is given a chance to lay back and enjoy the sensations, and the view of course! With reverse cowgirl, the view from behind is a great deviation from the norm and is one of the main highlights of the position, especially to any visual people out there!

To start, have the base penetrating partner find a comfortable position, lying on their back on a bed, couch or any other suitable surface. Take your time to get comfortable and feel sexy. Once you’re both ready for the main event, the top partner can climb on, ensuring their head is facing their partner's feet and carefully straddling them. The top partner can place their weight on their partner’s shins for the most comfort.

From here, the partner on top can slowly insert the bottom partner’s penis or dildo if you’re using a strap-on and start to move. Try bouncing up and down, gyrating your hips in circular motions, or thrusting back and forth for different sensations! Once you find a rhythm that works for both parties, the partner on the bottom is free to use their hands to explore their body or the other person’s for extra fun! 

If you want extra clitoral or vulva stimulation in this position, a cockring with a large vibrating head is the perfect addition, though you’ll need to put it on upside-down to align the vibrations with the top partner’s body.. Something like the Heloise Vibrating Textured Cock Ring from Pretty Love is great because it can be worn upside-down on the wearer’s penis/strap-on or right way up to suit more positions!