Rocking horse

The week’s spicy sex position is a variation of the infamous lotus shape! Similar to the lotus, this sex position can be considered more advanced than other shapes as it involves a lot of hip-thrusting while maintaining an upright posture, plus intimate eye contact, but it’s the intimacy and closeness of this shape that’s what makes it so worthwhile! In any case, you should never be put off a sex position because of the perceived difficulty of a shape — if there’s a will, there’s a way… 😉

Start with the penetrating partner sitting up with their legs out in front of them or crossed. For more ease and support, they can either lean back against something sturdy like a headboard or place their hands out and behind them as anchors. The receiver then straddles the giver, allowing their legs to straighten out in front of them while leaning back on their arms for stability. Alternatively, the penetrating partner can hook their elbows under the receiver’s knees and pull them closer via the front of their thighs or behind the waist.

The gentle leaning back from each other creates space between the two bodies, meaning you can take in the full view of this shape or even add a toy for more stimulation! If you’re keen to spice up your sensations, try a compact bullet vibrator like the new Sexyland Sleek 7-Mode Bullet Vibrator that won’t interrupt the flow of the fun with any bulkiness.

If you find the upright thrusting difficult, Sexyland has so many great position aides and props to assist couples of all ages and physical abilities to explore and enjoy a more satisfying sex life. A bolster like the Sportsheets Pivot Positioner,  or even a bouncy chair can allow anyone to practise this shape as it holds and supports you!