The Inverted Spoon

For those seeking a more intimate sex position, it’s hard to go past the Inverted Spoon. This cosy position has the benefit of keeping your face close to your partner’s, perfect for deep, intimate kisses, or just the enjoyment of watching their facial expression as you enjoy each other’s bodies...

For this position, start with the penetrating partner lying on their side on a comfortable surface like a bed or a deep couch. The other person lies down next to them face-to-face, with one leg draped over their partner’s, allowing for penetration or rubbing. If you’re feeling adventurous, the Inverted Spoon can be spiced up with the introduction of anal play — simply reach around behind your partner for easy access, either with your fingers or a toy! Don’t forget plenty of lubricant, and as always, ensure clear communication and consent throughout.

You can place a pillow or positioning wedge such as one of the triangles in the Sevanda Sex Positioning Pillow under the receiving partner’s upper body to provide support, elevation, and a different angle.

Another benefit of the Inverted Spoon is that it leaves your hands free to explore your partner’s body and access additional pleasure areas — this also means that they’re free to get a toy involved, like the Sexyland Explorer! This mini wand vibrator is the perfect size to slip comfortably between your bodies and deliver 10 vibration modes right where you want them…