Laced & Loaded! How to Pick the Perfect Lingerie

Let’s be honest, lingerie is never just underwear; it’s your secret confidence boost, your personal pick-me-up, your bedroom armour! Whether you're dressing for yourself, for a partner, or just because Tuesday felt like a fishnet kind of day, the right lingerie should make you feel powerful, sexy and comfortable. Finding your perfect fit can be confusing, but it’s so worth it—from navigating styles and sizes to choosing fabrics that flatter, here’s your no-fuss guide to building a lingerie drawer that actually works for you!

The Lingerie Lineup

Before we start curating your perfect fit, let’s talk basics. Lingerie comes in all shapes and levels of spice:

• Bras: From everyday T-shirt bras to sultry balconettes and peekaboo pieces.
• Panties: Briefs, thongs, G-strings, crotchless, you’ve got options.
• Lingerie Sets: Easy combos that do the styling for you.
• Bodysuits & Teddies: Perfect for smoothing lines and making a statement.
• Shapewear: A supportive layer that smooths and sculpts, enhancing your natural shape and boosting confidence.
• Corsets & Bustiers: Think vintage glamour with a modern, structured twist—after all, the corset never goes out of style.

Feel-Good Fabrics

Your skin deserves the good stuff! Here’s a breakdown of what to look (and feel) for:

• Lace: Light, delicate and adds an instant dose of romance.
• Mesh: Sexy, breathable, and often see-through.
• Satin/Silk: Smooth, luxe, and glides like a dream.
• Cotton: Comfy, breathable and perfect for everyday wear.
• PVC/Faux or Real Leather: For bold moments and kinky wear that can go beyond the bedroom to BDSM events and private fetish parties.

As a rule of thumb, opt for materials that feel good and move with you, especially if you’re planning to wear your lingerie for long periods of time—you want to feel comfortable enough to strut (or lounge) without adjusting every five minutes.

Tips for Choosing the Right Lingerie

Finding the perfect lingerie isn’t just about what looks good on the hanger, it’s about knowing yourself. What makes you feel confident, sexy, and supported? Whether you’re dressing for yourself, a partner, or just to strut around the house like it’s your runway, here’s how to choose pieces that love your body as much as you do:

• Fit first, fantasy second: No matter how gorgeous it looks, if it digs, gaps, or slips, it’s not the one.
• Know your body shape: High-cut styles lengthen legs, plunge bras boost cleavage, and high-waisted bottoms are a curvy girl’s dream!
• Consider your vibe: Romantic? Go for florals and lace. Edgy? Think cutouts and black mesh. Playful? Bright colours and frills.
• Try different cuts: Sometimes the sexiest surprise is discovering a new silhouette that totally works for you.

Accessorising Your Lingerie

Once you've found the perfect lingerie, it's time to take things up a notch. Accessories like body chains, harnesses, and rope can transform your look, adding drama, elegance, or a touch of kink, whatever your vibe calls for. Whether you're layering a delicate gold chain over lace or cinching your waist with a bold harness, these details elevate your ensemble and invite a little extra attention exactly where you want it.

• Chains: Think delicate body chains draped over a sheer bra or bold hardware layered across a teddy.
• Harnesses: Pair a leather harness with a mesh bodysuit for major dom energy.
• Ropes: Explore the visual and sensual thrill of rope bondage, combining texture with anticipation. And it never hurts to have some rope within reach!

Pairing Lingerie with Costumes for a Sexy Surprise

Costumes aren’t just for Halloween; mixing lingerie with roleplay outfits can be a great way to break a routine and turn up the heat! Slip on something unexpected, like the Mapalé Sexy French Maid Criss Cross Bodysuit Costume Set, and suddenly you’re not just doing the dusting, you’re running the whole damn house. Add a pair of heels (for commanding attention, or stepping on someone who’s misbehaved) and a cheeky attitude, and you’ve got a fantasy that’s ready to play out.

Prefer to turn heads as a sexy schoolgirl or a naughty nurse? There are so many ways to let your imagination run wild! Costumes like these blend lingerie with character, giving you permission to explore new sides of yourself, whether you’re feeling playful, dominant, sweet, or downright naughty…

Glow Inside and Out

Who says lingerie is only for candlelit moments? Some pieces are made to shine, literally. Glow-in-the-dark and UV-reactive lingerie is perfect for parties, raves, or just surprising your partner and turning them on when you turn the lights off! Whether you're heading to a festival or planning something special at home, these glow pieces are the ultimate in playful seduction.

Exposed Daisy Charm UV Reactive Plunging Halter Teddy
Bold, flirty, and rave-ready! This teddy brings together a plunging neckline and neon daisy charm embroidery that glows under UV light, ideal for when you want to be seen.

Fantasy Lingerie Glow Flashback Rhinestone Teddy & Gloves
Dripping in sparkle and sass, this rhinestone teddy and matching gloves duo glows under blacklight and makes every movement dazzle. A total showstopper for a total scene-stealer like you!

Fantasy Lingerie Glow in a Trance Floral Embroidered Crotchless Teddy
This dreamy teddy pairs sheer mesh with glowing floral embroidery, plus a cheeky crotchless cut. A head-turner in every sense.

Our Favourites

Looking for a little inspo? Here are a few Sexyland favourites that we can’t stop drooling over:

• Killer Legs Lined In Mesh Strappy Bodystocking Thong Teddy
  Flirty, fierce and flattering, this one’s a showstopper.
• House of Desire Harper Floral Embroidery Ruffle Mesh Teddy
  Soft, romantic and ridiculously pretty.
• JSY Sheer Lace Cage Strap Lingerie Set
  Sensual, strappy and unapologetically sexy.
• Fantasy Lingerie Vixen Nothing On You Chain Cutout Mesh Teddy (also available in plus-size)
  Sheer? Check. Just the right amount of skin on display? Double-check. Show-stealer? Check, check, and check!
• Mapalé Exposed Underwire Striped Mesh Chemise & G-String
  A playful twist on the classic chemise.
• House of Desire Brigeta Cupless Gartered Corset Bustier & Thong
  Vintage vibes with a seriously seductive finish.

Feeling like a spontaneous sexy surprise? Our 2-hour sex toy and lingerie delivery service can have your new outfit to your door in a flash, leaving you plenty of time to set the scene, or you can visit Sexyland’s adult shops in person to try our lingerie on and find your perfect fit!