Nora Jo’s Top X-Rated Adult Activities For Rainy Days

Hey y’all, it’s Nora Jo here again to share my best recommendations for unique and intimate indoor activities to do on your own or with a partner while the last of the winter blues pours down outside! After all, just because it’s raining doesn’t mean the weather is the only thing that can be wet… 😏😏

Sensual Escapes: Erotic Candles & Massage Oils for Cosy Days

First, let’s set the mood. If it’s a gloomy, grey day outside, there’s nothing better than a luxurious scented candle to make you feel all warm and cosy at home. I’m one of those girlies who’s always stocked up on scented candles in pretty jars because I’m an absolute candle fiend and I love the golden glow of a flickering flame, but I also have a couple of special erotic candles that are just for massages! Being spoiled with a massage is already lovely, but massage candles can make the experience even more sensual by adding a luscious slipperiness and deeply nourishing moisturisation.

Massage candles are made with specific waxes and oils that melt at a lower temperature than regular candles, turning them into a sumptuous, body-safe massage oil that feels heavenly when rubbed into the skin, either by a partner or by yourself for some indulgent self-care. I personally love the Earthly Body Hemp Seed 3-In-1 Massage Candle in Guavalava when I want a sweet and heady tropical fruit scent, or I switch to the Kashmir Musk scent (which is currently available at Sexyland in-store only) when I’m in the mood for something a bit more sandalwood and vanilla-leaning. Both come in generous tins with lids and include a little spoon for doling out the melted wax and drizzling over the skin. These candles melt at just a couple degrees above normal body temperature for the perfect level of gentle heat to soothe sore spots and relax you, and the delicious scent is a wonderful way to get lost in an aromatherapy paradise! I like to put a towel down to protect my bedsheets, put on some dreamy music, and close my eyes while I listen to the rain pitter-pattering against the window…

Wet & Wild: Waterproof Toys to Heat Up a Rainy Day

I had the most amazing soak in the tub on my own during a thunderstorm not that long ago, and by itself, the bath was a fabulous way to soak away my stress and escape my troubles, if only for a little while. The bathtub was big enough for two people, so I reckon it would have been just as nice with a partner to lean back on, with me behind them leaning against my chest, or sitting on the opposite end of the tub from. This particular bathtub had new jets installed recently, which were very nice, but they were sadly not in the right position for anyone to use them in, *ahem*, extracurricular ways, if you get my drift.

If your bathtub has similarly poorly positioned jets or no jets, you can always add one of Sexyland’s many waterproof vibrators to spice up your fun! I find that a cordless wand vibrator is one of the best waterproof toys to use in the bath as it’s ideal for easy full-body massages on yourself or a partner, including your intimate areas for the ultimate hot and steamy experience. Sexyland customers have been loving our very own Sexyland Switch, which has a double-ended design that vibrates at the head or at the insertable handle so you can choose between external massaging or penetrative pleasure! Otherwise, if you prefer something larger to get those hard-to-reach spots, the LELO Smart Wand 2 (available in medium and large) have been popular thanks to their ergonomically curved shape, which makes massaging your back a cinch.

Alternatively, if you don’t have a bath, you can turn your shower into a pleasure paradise instead! I’ve raved about the Womanizer Wave Shower Head before and how well it serves as a clitoral stimulator, so if you like the idea of a 2-in-1 sex toy that you can hide in plain sight and use as a functional shower head too, this is the waterproof toy for you. Otherwise, the same recommendations for waterproof toys apply as above.

To turn bath time into an even more sensual experience, you can enhance things by lighting a massage candle while you bathe and using the melted massage oil as a decadent moisturiser once you step out of the steam. For some added ✨ambience✨ that doesn’t cost a thing, I like to turn my phone flashlight on and put a coloured glass bottle on top to create my own mood lighting!

Turn Rainy Days into Passionate Nights with Couples Vibrators

I don’t know about y’all, but sometimes all I want to do is stay in bed all day and get myself (or a partner) off until my body insists on food 🥴🥴

Of course, if I’m with someone else, there are far more fun things to do in bed together than have them watch me go to town on myself with my wand vibrator! A couples vibrator is a great addition to PIV (penis in vagina) sex, especially if you’re one of those vulva-owners like me who can’t orgasm vaginally (which is to say, without clitoral stimulation). Couples vibrators are normally C-shaped to cup the wearer’s clitoris and G-spot simultaneously, and the internal arm that sits inside the vagina is often flattened to leave room for a partner to penetrate, either with a penis or a strap-on toy.

I personally own a We-Vibe Chorus that is perfect for enhancing partnered playtime, and it even has a remote control and app compatibility for easy setting adjustments in the heat of the moment! The remote is also fun to use as it has a unique squeeze feature where the tighter you grip it, the stronger the vibrations become on the Chorus! This is quite useful during play as your body naturally tenses up when you’re about to orgasm, meaning the remote knows that when you grip it tighter, you’re closer to the edge and gives you an extra push right when you need it. I’d never really given much of a hoot about app-compatible toys until I got this baby, and let me tell you, being able to control a toy from your phone is a real game changer — no more fumbling with awkwardly placed buttons or interrupting the flow of fun when you’re in the perfect position and don’t want to get out of it! Once the weather clears up, you can even wear it out and about while your partner controls it from their phone to put your poker face to the test…

Spice up your day with some naughty roleplay costumes

Just because you’re not heading out anywhere doesn’t mean you can’t still get dressed up! After all, what better time is there to flirt with a fantasy than when you and your boo are both cooped up but craving an adventure?

If you’re keen to escape reality and enter a fantasy realm for a day, sexy roleplay costumes can be a fun way to explore and experiment with your unexplored desires in a safe environment with a partner whom you trust. Roleplay is an excellent opportunity to experience intimacy on a different level, but it’s important to communicate openly, create safe words, discuss limits, and establish expectations before you start. It’s also essential (as well as just nice) to give each aftercare once the scene is over, especially if there are elements of BDSM and kink involved like physical roughness beyond what one might expect during vanilla sex, degrading dirty talk, and so on.

A common theme in scenarios that involve roleplay costumes is that there is usually an element of servitude, authority, and/or a caretaker relationship between the roles, which lends itself well to Dominant/submissive dynamics. Some examples include:

• teachers and students
• bosses and employees
• contractors and housewives or househusbands
• Pilots, air stewardesses and/or passengers
• personal trainers/yoga instructors and clients
• nurses/doctors and patients
• police officers and suspects
• firefighters and civilians
• maids/butlers and residents
• landlords and tenants

If you’re not into the idea of full head-to-toe roleplay costumes, why not try a mask instead? I personally own this faux leather bunny half-mask and it works a treat when I want to feel sexy without having to get fully dressed up 🤭🤭

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Enjoy watching for clouds over the coming weeks before springtime really hits us ;)

NJ xx