All Tied Up

Imagine your special someone securely tied to a bed, arms and legs spread wide in a stunning display of trust and vulnerability — this week, we’re exploring an exciting and visually captivating position in the BDSM world: the Starfish! Under normal circumstances, this might seem a little underwhelming for both people since it involves one person, well, just lying there. But if they’re lying there because they’re unable to break free of the restraints binding them down to the bed, that’s a different story altogether… 😏

This kinky sex position not only provides the thrill of restraint but also opens up a whole new realm of sensation and play! To set the stage, start by ensuring that both partners are comfortable and have discussed their boundaries beforehand. Safety is key in BDSM, so ensure you have safety scissors nearby in case you need to release your partner quickly. Communication is essential, so establish a safe word before you begin, ensuring that both partners feel secure and can enjoy the experience fully.

Choose which partner is being tied down and use soft restraints (think satin ties, neoprene bondage cuffs, or silky ropes). The starfish shape provides complete exposure, making it easy to tease and stimulate various erogenous zones — whether it's gentle touches, light spanking, or more adventurous sensations like impact or sensory play, this kinky sex position sets the scene for exploration and anticipation!

Want to amp up the experience? Incorporate sensory play! A feather tickler or ice cubes can create contrasting sensations that heighten arousal and excitement. For an even more thrilling experience, consider using a blindfold to remove one sense and enhance the others, making trust and anticipation the name of the game. If you’re feeling especially daring, the starfish is a great position to explore impact play — consider using a riding crop or a flogger, taking care to avoid any internal organs.

The Starfish position is all about exploration, intimacy, and trust. With the right setup and a few enticing toys, you can create an unforgettable adventure. Ready to be restrained and unleash your inner desires? Check out Sexyland’s range for all the BDSM gear you’ll need — with our speedy 2 hour delivery, you’ll be all tied up and ready for fun in no time!