Reverse Cowgirl

This week, we’re diving into one of the most exciting and versatile sex positions: Reverse Cowgirl! This fan-favourite position gives the rider total control of pace and depth, from slow and sensual to fast and wild, while the other penetrating partner gets the ultimate view. Reverse Cowgirl unlocks endless possibilities for fun and experimentation — whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned pro, we’ve got some hot tips (and a few toys) to take this position to the next level!

To kick things off, get comfy and choose your spot — Reverse Cowgirl works perfectly on a bed, couch, or even a sturdy chair with back support. The penetrating partner can lie back or sit up, legs slightly apart. Meanwhile, the rider faces away from their partner and straddles them, placing their knees on either side of the other person’s hips. This setup gives the rider full control over pace, angle, and depth, perfect for those who love taking charge! Start slow, sink down, and find the rhythm that gets you both in sync…

Don’t forget to add lubricant — lubrication is the secret to smooth, seamless movement! For a dreamy glide, Sexyland recommends the Pjur® Original Concentrated Silicone-Based Lubricant, a high-quality silicone-based lubricant that enhances every sensation and keeps things silky-smooth, comfortable, and exciting!

Want to elevate the experience? Try adding some extra stimulation with a sensation-enhancing lubricant! Cooling lubricants offer a refreshing burst of thrilling chilliness that can add a delightful twist to your play (our favourite is the Wicked® Aqua Chill). For those who like it hot, a warming lubricant like Fleshlight’s® Fleshlube™ Fire provides a gentle heat that intensifies with every movement.

The best part of this sex position is its versatility, and it works well with almost any type of toy! A C-shaped couples sex toy like the We-Vibe® Sync™ O Secure-Fit Couples Vibrator delivers simultaneous stimulation for both partners while an anal plug allows for double-penetration thrills and takes your pleasure to the next level, so don’t be shy — feel free to experiment!

Reverse Cowgirl is all about exploring and having fun. With a few simple tweaks and the right toys, you can turn this classic position into a completely new adventure that’s both thrilling and satisfying. Ready to take the reins with Reverse Cowgirl? Sexyland’s got the toys you need to find your perfect match!