All The Bells And Whistles — A Guide To Men's Fetishwear

Fetish wear has been popular behind closed doors and at BDSM clubs for decades! Recently, lingerie for men is becoming more prominent as a mainstream route for people to feel sexy and confident in their bodies. Perhaps best of all, fetish clothing is for everyone and everybody who enjoys a chance to dress up, regardless of what you enjoy in the bedroom. This week, Sexyland is shining the spotlight on our favourite men’s sexy wear and bondage gear for everyone to enjoy!

What is fetish wear?

Fetish wear and fetish fashion refer to garments most frequently used in kink communities (such as the leather, bondage, and latex communities). They have long been associated with sex-positive and LGBTQIA+ groups, with particular significance for queer male communities throughout history. Fetish wear can include stiletto heels, harnesses, corsets, stockings, jockstraps, lockable wearables, full-body catsuits, and so much more. It’s generally not practical enough for everyday wear, which just makes it all the more fun when you do go to the effort of getting dressed up! Here are some of our favourite items you can wear to fetish events or at home, and if you’re feeling particularly bold, you could always style them under your everyday clothing as a sexy little secret for yourself or a lucky onlooker of your choice...

Male Power® Gemini Reversible Faux Leather Chest Harness

What’s better than one piece of sexy fetish clothing? A sexy one-piece that can be worn as two! This vegan-friendly chest harness can be worn with the triangular design or the triple strap design in the front. You can adjust the buckles at the shoulder, chest, and rib straps for the perfect fit around your torso. Both sides are adorned with large metal O-rings so you can purchase and attach BDSM accessories to match! Try adding a leash, cuffs, or other restraints for extra fun, as well as making this the perfect outfit to wear to a fetish party or in the bedroom…

Poison Rose Men’s Wetlook Bottomless Boxers

Dare to bare your buns with these hot bottomless boxer briefs! These bad boys are made of wet look faux leather, the ultimate staple material that’ll help you fit right in if you’re stuck on what to wear at a fetish party. The wide, stretchy waistband won't dig into your skin, giving you a flattering fit on your hips. The subtle pouched crotch design gives your package some extra breathing room so you can strut your stuff in confidence, comfort, and style.

Strict™ Male Body Harness With Metal Cock Rings

This stylish body harness is sure to help you look the part, whether you’re playing behind closed doors or wearing it out to an adult event or party. It has metal O-rings on the torso and between the shoulder blades for attaching your favourite bondage gear like cuffs, leashes, and other fun restraints. There are another two metal cock and ball rings at the crotch (one for the shaft and one for your testicles). Perfect for keeping you hard and contained so you can stand at attention for as long as you needt! It has firm, faux leather straps that are vegan-friendly and adjustable to give you the best fit. The straps wrap around your neck, chest, and waist while the vertical straps draw any hungry onlookers’ eyes to your most intimate assets in the front and back, if you get our drift…😉

Coquette® Darque® Strappy Chest Harness With Detachable Garters

A strappy elastic body harness has been a must-have for anyone with an edgy or gothic-inspired fashion sense. This sexy little number from Coquette is sure to be a crowd pleaser. The satin-sheen elastic forms an angular triangle motif to elongate your torso, highlighting the shape of your chest for everyone to enjoy ogling, including you! The cupless design focuses on your pecs and abs with a cheeky collar detail to give you a caged-in feeling. It comes with detachable suspenders so you can add some thigh-high stockings. This is the perfect layering piece for your edgy everyday wear or fetish event attire. Despite its complicated-looking design, the G-hook closure at the back and waist make this harness easy to put on and take off so you can jump into action at a moment’s notice!

Male Power® Fetish Jouster Wet Look Cutout Studded G-String

Whether you’re playing in the dungeon or in the bedroom, you’re sure to glue all eyes to your package in this revealing men's underwear. Its faux leather material, studded details, and metal O-rings are the perfect complement to kinky play and aesthetics. The O-rings are also compatible with BDSM gear like cuffs and rope! The cutout design shows off the area just above your package while the barely-there rear disappears delightfully between your cheekiest assets. The waistband has a comfortable amount of stretch in it for a flattering fit over your hips, while the pouched crotch keeps you contained in total comfort.