Vanilla Sex is Cancelled: How To Seriously Spice Up Your Sex Life

Y’know what, we get it. When it comes to your and your partner’s sexual pleasure, reliability is a huge bonus, so it’s totally normal for your sex life to fall into particular patterns or for you two to stick to go-to routines more often than not. In long-term relationships especially, you may have noticed that sex isn’t as novel or as exciting as it used to be, and it might be that your sexual satisfaction has changed with the evolution of your relationship, or that you just miss the sense of mystery that comes with discovering a new lover. However, if you feel like your sex life could do with a pick-me-up, there are plenty of ways to add spice and breathe new life into your boudoir! An adult store like Sexyland is perfect for a fun sex life, whether you feel like spicing things up in the bedroom with different sex positions (like the ones we regularly post as part of our Sex Position of the Week series) or with some shiny new toys. Sexyland’s Fun Specialists are always up for a chat about advice and suggestions on how to spice up the bedroom, for her, him, or them!

How to spice up the bedroom for her

Female enhancers & stimulants

There’s a reason why the ON Arousal Oil For Her is one of our most long standing bestsellers at Sexyland! For a seriously fun time like no other, this ‘buzzy’ clitoral oil drastically heightens her arousal levels and is something a woman can use to spice up bedroom fun for herself while masturbating or during sex with a partner. The buzzing tingly sensation sends blood flow rushing to the clitoris, increasing sensitivity, self-lubrication, and even orgasm frequency and intensity! One reviewer said it had his partner ‘climbing on the ceiling in an Exorcist-esque frenzy’, so you know it’s the real deal…

Not quite ready for that level of spice in your sex life? Sexyland also stocks the ON Arousal Oil For Her - Lite (and ON Arousal Oil For Her - Ultra if you like it really hot).

Different positions to spice up her sex life

Sometimes all it takes to capture the thrill of exploring the unknown is different scenery, so the Time Bomb sex position could be just the ticket! This woman-on-top position spices up sex by getting you both up and out of bed and into a chair instead (preferably something without arms and with a slightly lower seat for the best results). It also gives her maximum control over penetration depth, speed, and intensity so she can tailor everything to her liking.

Best couples’ toys for women

Yes, we know. We harp on about the We-Vibe® Chorus™ a lot here at Sexyland, but for couples’ fun, there really is nothing more intuitive than this little buzzing beauty. It has an adjustable C-shape that sits against the G-spot and clitoris, leaving room for a partner or toy to penetrate for delicious dual stimulation. Because the vibrator comfortably cups your body hands-free, using a wearable vibrator is one of the many things a woman can do to spice up the bedroom for herself solo too!

The We-Vibe Chorus also works with the We-Connect™ smartphone app to unlock more ways to play and comes with a Squeeze Remote that intensifies the vibrations the tighter your grip gets, helping to push you both over the edge when you need it the most.

How to spice up the bedroom for him

Male enhancers & stimulants

Whether you like having an extra helping hand or want to intensify your erotic encounter, there’s nothing like a boost in the bedroom to help you feel and perform your best! Our customers are fans of Raging Bull™ male enhancement cream, which uses a unique recipe of herbal ingredients to provide a whole host of sexual benefits to help spice things up in the bedroom, including improved blood flow for an increase in penis size, erection strength, and stamina. It’ll even boost your libido and and lead to more intense orgasms, which is always a win in our books!

Different positions to spice up his sex life

What do you get when you combine the deep penetration of a position from behind with the great view of a face-to-face position? The Pretzel of course! This sideways sex position is something a little different to spice things up in the bedroom and really does give you the best of both worlds, with a bit of wraparound and elevated leg action for a deeper angle.

Best couples’ toys for men

Giving someone a blowjob while something vibrates through their shaft can be a strange experience, so why not swap it for something that feels great for both people like the non-vibrating Fleshlight® Quickshot™ - Vantage? This mini masturbator is dual-ended so you can enter from either side and let your partner tend to your head on one end. The internal texture provides awesome stimulation as you stroke and the transparent colouring lets both of you see the action up close and personal!

Feeling inspired? Now that our adult stores are open again, you can come chat to Sexyland’s Fun Specialists for more ways to spice up your sex life, or shop our adult toy range online and see where your imaginations take you… 😉