Self-Love With Dr Lurve

As a relationship expert, sometimes I encounter situations where one partner doesn’t like the other engaging in self-intimacy or masturbation; however, I’m here to tell you that this is a healthy part of everyone’s self-love and sexual journey.

Let’s Chat Masturbation 

Just because a partner masturbates, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you, or they don’t want to have sex with you. In fact, there are numerous reasons a person will engage in masturbation. Ranging from stress and tension release to understanding their own body better or just making time for their own self-care. 

Aside from reducing stress, there are a range of other health benefits to masturbating that you may not be aware of. Did you know masturbation can assist the release of endorphins that increase mental well-being, boost your immunity and your mood! Better yet, masturbation can improve your overall sexual health and function by increasing blood flow to your area down there - and who doesn’t want that? 

Partner Play

For those looking to connect more with their partner, mutual masturbation is an excellent way to bring couples closer together. Not only with this help you explore each other's bodies in a non-threatening environment, but it can help you understand your partner's sexual preferences and desires. 

Mutual masturbation is also a great way to explore new things without the pressure of performing. Using masturbation sex toys with each other can be a great way to bring fun into the bedroom while building intimacy and trust with your partner. A toy like The Satisfyer from Sexyland is perfect for this kind of intimacy, which can also be used during sex to increase pleasure.

Solo Play 

If you prefer solo masturbation, sex toys are also a great way to improve stimulation that leads to more orgasms. For those with a clitoris, this could include focusing on just this area - which has more nerve endings than any other part of the vulva! I would recommend trying The Rose Vibrator, which can stimulate the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. 

If you’re looking for more of the real deal, then dual-stimulation toys are the way to go. The We-Vibe Nova 2 and Vush Muse Vibrator will help those who have vaginal and clitoral self-intimacy desires!

If you'd prefer something that makes your life easier, the Lovense wearable egg vibrator is a hands-free companion that will help you achieve that steamy solo session. This vibrator is also amazing for those who are in a long-distance relationship… you can make masturbating fun through the Bluetooth app from anywhere in the world!

Play Your Own Way

Some people enjoy masturbating regularly, whereas others prefer not to at all. Both are totally okay! Regardless of your relationship status, age, sexuality, or gender identity, it’s a healthy way to learn more about your body with many surprising health benefits. Whatever your preferences may be, Sexyland has something that will meet your needs and enhance both your mutual and solo sexual experiences.