Top 7 Reasons You're So Horny - Sexynews #82

Are you living in a constant state of arousal?

If you seem to be living in a constant state of arousal, you might be wondering if your level of horniness is normal and what is making you hornier than other people seem to be. Causes of increased arousal vary from person to person and everyone's experience is subjective, but it is completely normal to have a high libido! If it's not getting in the way of your everyday life, embrace your sex drive and don't be afraid to treat yourself to some mind-blowing sexual pleasure - your body (and any lucky lovers in your life) will thank you for it!

Top 7 reasons you’re turned on all the time

1. New Relationship: Nothing piques sexual desire more than a hot new lover. The excitement of a new romance's potential and the hormone-driven energy that comes with it is enough to get anyone's mind racing! The beginning of a budding romance, often coined the 'honeymoon period', triggers the brain to release dopamine, the body's natural (and understandably addictive) happy hormone, and this level of intensity is pretty hard to ignore. 
2. Menstrual Cycle: If you're someone who has a period, your hormones are constantly fluctuating during your menstrual cycle. This can increase your body's sensitivity to touch, especially around your erogenous zones like the breasts and pelvic area, intensifying sexual arousal. Hormones (and therefore your horniness) are at their highest just before ovulation, which is the body's natural way of encouraging you to have sex at your most fertile time to increase the likelihood of pregnancy. If you're not looking to bring a baby into the world, don't forget to grab some condoms ​for worry-free fun! 
3. Pregnancy: Being pregnant brings on intense cravings for many women and sex is often at the top of the list… along with some odd combinations of ice cream and pickles. Usually by the second trimester, a woman's hormones are raging and she’s experiencing increased sensitivity in her breasts, nipples, and pelvic region, along with her vagina being more lubricated than ever. Every part of her body is screaming for orgasmic release and pregnancy orgasms are an intense force to be reckoned with! 
4. Medication: New medications can sometimes trigger an increase in sex drive, similar to how some can decrease it. Going off of meds that were suppressing your libido can also see your sex drive increasing as it returns to normal. If you're excited about the surge of sexual desire you're experiencing, why not embrace it and celebrate with a shiny new toy? We've got a fantastic range of sex toys for women, male sex toys, and sex toys for couples to explore and enjoy! 
5. Stress: Some people respond to stressful situations with increased sexual desire as sex can be the perfect outlet for pent up frustrations. It can also be a great distraction or escape from unpleasant reminders of difficult circumstances. Sex also triggers the production of dopamine and other happy hormones, making it a pleasurable way to relax and unwind. 
6. Age: Sexual libido responds differently at certain stages in life, with many studies showing pronounced differences between men and women. Men's libidos tend to peak in their 20s though at this stage, they may still worry about being inexperienced - using male sex toys like realistic dolls or masturbators can help them practice sexual techniques and improve stamina.
   Meanwhile, women reach their sexual peak sometime around their 30s (a.k.a. Dirty Thirties) as by this point in their lives, a woman is typically aware of her body’s needs and what it takes to satisfy sexual cravings. She’s also developed more confidence in herself, is comfortable with her body, and has fewer insecurities. This is a time in a woman’s life where she truly owns her sexuality and is going to let it be known, whether by flaunting her figure in some sexy lingerie or celebrating her body with some sex toys! 
7. Diet & Exercise: The foods we eat can have a huge impact on our sexual arousal, especially aphrodisiacs like chocolate, strawberries, and chilli peppers. Getting active and exercising those pelvic muscles can also stimulate arousal in many women. Kegel Toys are a fun way for women to workout their pelvic floor, which has a host of health benefits for her including orgasms that are more frequent and stronger!

Do women get horny as often and as intensely as men?

They sure do! Society teaches us that men have higher sex drives but that’s not always true. Many women have libidos that put their male counterparts to shame! Due to negative stereotypes associated with being a nymphomaniac and slut-shaming, women respond differently to sexual cravings and are less obvious about it. But make no mistake, a woman’s sex drive is every bit as capable of reaching proportions as epic as a man’s! In fact, women are the primary clientele of the sex toy industry - why else would there be such an extensive range of toe-curling vibrators and female stimulators on the market?

When is having a high libido a problem?

​Although being horny is normal (even at inconvenient times), you might be living with a hypersexual disorder, sexual addiction, or other libido-increasing mental condition without even knowing. It is also possible for chemical influences like alcoholic substances to be responsible for loosened inhibitions and risky sexual decision. Hypersexuality can cause intense sexual urges, fantasies, and impair judgement in a way that interferes with daily activities and makes it difficult to focus on other matters. Fortunately, there are ways to alleviate your frustrations and accommodate urges discreetly so you can get on with your day. If your urges are negatively affecting your life or you're worried about how your sexual desires interact with substance use, share your concerns with a doctor.

Satisfy your sexual urges discreetly!

If you’ve got a spare moment to sneak off, Sexyland carries a titillating range of quiet, travel-sized sex toys that you can wear or carry with you for quickies anywhere, anytime. Bullet & Egg Vibrators fit into bags or pockets and can be a petite powerhouses of pleasure. If getting away for a few minutes isn’t an option and you have a convincing poker face, a Wearable Panty Vibrator can get you through the day without anyone being the wiser.

Top 5 sex toys to get you off on-the-go

• Lovense Lush 2 Bluetooth Wearable Vibrator: Whether you're playing at home alone or across from your partner in a restaurant, this toy could be delightfully dangerous in the right hands!
• BMS Powerfullets: These affordable bullets are perfect for clitoral stimulation and discreet quickies on the go. They’ll even massage those tense muscles to help get you through the work day until you can take a moment to yourself for even more fun.
• Little Vicky Clitoral Stimulator: This toy provides the ultimate clitoral experience and will leave you in a state of breathless bliss time and time again with its heavenly suction effect and mind-blowing licking functions.
• We-Vibe Wearable Vibrator: Ergonomically contoured to suit your body, this toy offers incredible internal stimulation and is whisper-quiet, perfect for keeping your dirty desires discreet!
• Pretty Love Fairy Boat: Super discreet & whisper quiet, this panty vibrator sits in your knickers and comes with you for orgasmic fun everywhere you go!

Why am I still horny after climaxing?

A woman’s body is a complex system of sensual delights. Unlike most men, she can experience a mind-shattering orgasm and still be ready for more. While one orgasm might be enough to satisfy some, others aren't fully satisfied until they're completely exhausted and ready to collapse. This is another perfect example of why the sex toy industry is meeting heavy demands for durable female sex toys with long run times. Your partner might be really good in bed but even the best lovers sometimes struggle to meet the sexual demands of their insatiable partners, and that’s okay! If your needs aren’t met after the first orgasm, let your partner get to the finish line and pull out the toy box for the rest of your raunchy fun.

The bottom line

Your libido can fluctuate from day to day and be influenced by a variety of factors. A healthy sex drive is important, and if you feel your urges are interfering with everyday activities, see your GP for help curbing those desires. Otherwise, make the most of your sex drive and have fun incorporating sexual satisfaction into your daily routine!